Gay Dating in London | Mature & Intergenerational Community

Whether you're looking for meaningful relationships, vibrant social connections, or casual local chat, Caffmos brings together older gay men, silver daddies, bears, cubs, and admirers across Greater London.

Why London Men Choose Caffmos

Established in 1998, Caffmos (originally Contacts And Friendship For Men Over Sixty) is one of the longest-running, most welcoming intergenerational gay communities on the web.

Unlike fast-swipe apps, Caffmos focuses on genuine conversation, shared interests, and real community—both online and off.

What Makes Our Community Special?

Active London Membership: Thousands of registered members across Central, South, North, East, and West London.
Intergenerational Connections: A supportive space welcoming mature men, silver daddies, and younger guys looking to connect across generations.
Live HTML5 Video & Voice Chat: Instant, high-quality video and text chatrooms that work seamlessly on iPhone, Android, Mac, or PC.
Local Travel & Noticeboards: Plan meetups, coordinate London Pride events, or connect with members visiting the capital.

How It Works

Create Your Free Profile: Add your bio, preferences, and photos in under two minutes.
Browse London Profiles: Search members by age, borough, hobbies, or relationship goals.
Start Chatting: Send direct messages or jump into live audio and video chatrooms.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Caffmos completely free to join?: Yes. Creating a profile, browsing members, and accessing our video chatrooms is 100% free for all members.
What age group is Caffmos designed for?: While Caffmos was founded to support gay men over 60, our community welcomes adult men of all ages who appreciate intergenerational dating, mature friendships, and respectful community spaces.
Can I use Caffmos on my phone?: Yes. Our platform and HTML5 video chatrooms are fully optimized for all mobile devices, tablets, and desktop web browsers without needing to download a heavy app.